Married: and love it. Yes, it can be stressful and hard work, but after 18 years we are still very much best friends and can have a good laugh over anything.
Mom: being a mom is interesting and fun. I do not think I am very good at it, but I do know that this is where I am suppose to be.
These two things complete me, I am Mystified as to why others wait so long to do either, I know sometimes things are beyond their control, or they just don't want to for no reason its just not for them. But those who feel that it will hinder their life, slow them down, or keep them from experiencing life. My marriage has filled so many spots in my life and the kids have enhanced it even more. I wouldn't change any of it. I am looking forward to those years of just hubby and I as the kids grow and leave the nest, but I'm not in any hurry for I love where I'm at in my life and learn daily from my children and husband.
Though I may be mystified that does not mean I judge them, their choices are theirs and mine are mine. It just confuses me.
Marveled: at the world and the gifts around me daily.
Have a lovely day,